If you believe your marriage can be saved, take those necessary steps to save it. Divorce is not an easy process, either emotionally or financially, and if you can work through your problems with your spouse, it’s usually best to do so.
This is especially true if there are minor children involved who would benefit from being raised in a household with both parents.
Before you take any steps to end your marriage, you may want to consult with a marriage counselor, psychologist, or a member of the clergy, such as a minister, priest, or rabbi. Having a third party present who can help serve as a sounding board to sort out your marital issues can be invaluable.
In addition, in Pasco County, there are many social services organizations who can offer counseling for free or for reduced rates that depend on your ability to pay. You may consider going away to a marriage retreat, or taking some needed time away from the kids to talk through your issues.
In some cases, taking time away from each other can also help to clarify your decision. If you two are fighting frequently, a short separation can be exactly what you need in order to allow you to think clearly about each other and your future.
Deciding whether to stay married or to divorce is one of the biggest decisions a person can make. Many couples get tired of the fighting, and they base their decision on emotions rather than on serious thought and decision. Some couples don’t realize the huge implications that divorce can have for the rest of their lives, as well as the lives of their children.